After 10 months on the road we had become a bit cocky. We thought we could just roll into any new city and figure it out in no time. Then we got to Tokyo.
The bus from Narita airport dropped us in the heart of the Shibuya neighborhood, a densely packed area with thousands of businesses, hotels, bars, restaurants, and shops right on top of each other. We exited the bus and found ourselves in one of the busiest intersections in all of Tokyo.


We were a bit intimidated, but we didn’t doubt our ability to navigate to our hotel. After all, we had the address (albeit in English) and we knew that the hotel was only a five minute walk from the bus stop.
After 10 minutes of vainly trying to decipher the street signs we started asking for help. After 15 minutes we found a local who spoke English and was nice enough to use his cellphone to call the hotel and ask for directions. After 20 minutes the local gave up trying to understand the hotel’s directions and hailed us a taxi. The fare for the 3-minute ride to our hotel was more than the cost of a mid-range hotel in India. Welcome to Tokyo.
We spent our first two days in Tokyo looking up in wonderment. Much of Tokyo looks like Times Square with neon lights and huge television screens everywhere. Tokyo is in constant motion, yet it doesn’t feel like a huge urban center because the city is so quiet. The cars don’t honk their horns, stores don’t play loud music onto the street, and nobody yells at anybody else. It has all the action of New York and all of the serenity of San Francisco.
From the architecture to the high speed trains and high fashion, everything in this futuristic city looks new, polished and sleek. It probably helped that we don’t understand Japanese – even garish neon advertising promoting “2 for 1 Deals” looked pretty cool to us.
As we learned the hard way, Tokyo is a city where it really helps to have a local connection. Lucky for us, Erin’s cousin John does a lot of business in Tokyo and put us in touch with his colleague Yoshiko.

Yoshiko and her boyfriend Steve took us out for dinner, and immediately confirmed everything we heard about Japanese hospitality. They met us at our hotel, organized our taxi to the restaurant, explained the menu, ordered for us, gave us great sightseeing advice, and bought us many, many cups of sake. Yoshiko did all this even though she had just spent the last week in bed recovering from swine flu! We had a wonderful evening at Gonpachi, which Yoshiko called the “Kill Bill” restaurant because Quentin Tarantino used it as his inspiration for the fight scene in Kill Bill with the Crazy 88’s.

Despite a slight sake hangover, we got up early this next morning to visit the Meiji Jingu shrine and learn about Shinto, a religion we hadn’t come across anywhere else in Asia. Practiced by millions of Japanese, Shinto is characterized by an intense worship of nature and based on the belief that everything in nature contains a kami (spiritual essence) deserving respect. With its heavy focus on ritual purity, Shinto is a religion in which actions and rituals are much more important than words. The beautifully simple Meiji Shrine is one of the most important public shrines in Tokyo.

The Japanese take fashion very seriously and spend a lot of time and money on their clothes. For casual clothes the predominant color is black – the standard weekend uniform for most Japanese men and women is black designer shirts, black designer jeans, and some kind of grey accessory. For work clothes, every Japanese man who works in an office wears a suit to work. During rush hour the trains are packed with pinstripes and shiny black shoes.
In stark contrast the men and women in black are the young girls who dress up like dolls. Walking the streets of Tokyo we came across several groups of girls with their hair in ringlets, dressed in frilly prink dresses with floral prints, and wearing tons of make-up. They looked like an absurd hybrid of an American Girl doll, Marie Antoinette and Paris Hilton. Walking around it felt oddly like Halloween.


When we got back to the hotel we asked the concierge about the girls dressed like dolls. The concierge took a slight offense at the question, informing us curtly that the girls were dressed like princesses not dolls, and that the “hime gyaru” fashion is an accepted style in Tokyo. We apologized profusely for our cultural insensitivity.
EE: I tried to stay hip by getting a haircut in Tokyo. Unfortunately, the hairdresser only spoke three words of English: shampoo, cut and shaggy. After failed attempts at hand-gesturing and pointing at magazines, I let her do her thing. When she finished cutting, smiled and said: shaggy!


When most people think about Japanese food, they think of sushi. Although there are tons of sushi restaurants all over Tokyo, sushi is just one of dozens of different types of Japanese cuisine. After making the obligatory stops in traditional sushi bars, we started to get a little adventurous.

The last time Erin ate teppanyaki was at a restaurant in Madison called “Ginza of Tokyo.” To test its authenticity we traveled across town to the Ginza neighborhood for some grilled beef teppanyaki.
Many restaurants had menus with English translations, but even then we weren’t always sure what we were ordering. At Shabu-zen, we ordered beef and were asked whether we wanted shabu-shabu style or sukiyaki style. It took 15 minutes and 4 waiters to explain the difference. We chose shabu-shabu, and so they brought us thinly sliced raw beef and boiling hot broth and told us not to leave the beef in the broth for too long (it was a lot like Chinese hot pot without the oil). We later found out that the famous “angry lunch” scene in Lost in Translation was filmed at the table next to us, and it made us feel better than neither Bill Murray’s nor Scarlett Johannson’s character had any idea what they were doing either.

Erin’s cousin John was instrumental in making our Tokyo experience a success. Not only did he hook us up with Yoshiko and give us great sightseeing tips, but he also used his hotel points to book us a first-class room at the Westin Tokyo. We packed a day-bag, checked out of our dingy hotel room for a night, and made our way over to the Westin for some champagne at the Sky bar and a glorious night sleeping on a Heavenly Bed.

As we strolled around the posh area surrounding the Westin, we were struck by how the Japanese treat their dogs. It’s worth mentioning that just before we flew out of India, we took a 35 minute ride to the airport and passed two dog carcasses on the side of the road. We guessed that these mangy dogs had been dead for at least a few days because rigor mortis had set in. The next dog we saw was in Tokyo… in a baby stroller. After being careful to avoid the wild dogs in Southeast Asia and India, it was a bit of a culture shock to see Japanese ladies dressing their dogs in silk-and-cashmere sweaters and pushing them around in a fancy stroller.

No trip to Tokyo would be complete without checking out the famous Tokyo nightlife. We went to the Shinjuku neighborhood to take in the neon lights, do some black-light bowling and, of course, sing a little karaoke.


On our last night we went looking for a nightcap and stumbling into a tiny bar in the basement of a nearby building. The place looked more like a garage than a bar – it was decorated with toys, gardening tools, baseball souvenirs, random business cards and clothing. The owner was a character, and we spent an interesting evening with him and two of his very drunk patrons.

